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6 Tips To Buying Your Woman Her Favourite Intimate Wear

Because every day is Present Day, says lingerie designer Fabiana Pascali

BY Fabiana Lizarraga Pascali | Jul 5, 2017 | Sex & Relationships

Katy Johnson photographed by Eduardo Ceballos

“Creativity takes courage,” said Henri Matisse. Especially when planning to gift her undergarments. It says much about intentions and the kind of guy you are.  Too much or too little, a certain style or cut, or something as easy as sizing, might give her the wrong impression.

I’m here to set the record straight about the unwritten rules of intimate gifting. Why should you trust me guys? For starters, I design them and I’ve been a model. Not to mention, I’m a woman! I’d like to think I know a thing or two about what a woman think about when getting a pair of panties.


Fabiana Lizarraga Pascali

Let me give you 6 tips to finding the right pair:

1) Avoid picking something too lacey or too silky. It’s always best to test the water the first time around. Get her something that looks comfortable. Cotton is a great great choice. Remember, she’s only wearing the sexy stuff around you—it’s not her daily driver. A comfortable pair means she’ll wear it more often. That’s more reasons to think about you!

2) While on comfort, if you haven’t seen your lucky lady in her underwear too many times, choose a more full coverage style. A bikini, Brazilian, or boy shorts might be the route to take.

3) Sizing can be tricky guys. If you know it, great! You can skip down to #4. But when in doubt of her actual size, go for a medium. It might be a little loose or a little tight, but that’s better than be way off your mark. After all, you’ll only be wrong once!  As an extra tip, the style of underwear can affect the sizing a woman wears.


Katy Johnson photographed by Eduardo Ceballos

4) Pay attention to the colours of her outfits. You’ll want to go with a colour you know she’ll wear.  If she’s a dark colours woman and you get lime green panties, you know they’ll never see the light of day again! When all else fails, neutral colours like beige, black, and grey are the way to go!

5) Keep your underwear gifts fun and lighthearted. Getting a patterned pair of panties can add a personal touch if you know her interests! Say she’s into butterflies, cupcakes, skulls, or say…Star Wars – Ha! You can even get a writeable pair of panties from ThinkingPanties.com to unleash your inner poet/artist.

6) Your panty present should be a casual gifting. Don’t play it up—play it down and pretend it’s not a big deal. It should appear like you ‘so happened’ to find something cute you thought she’d like – wink!

Remember, this is your first time and you’re bound to have a few hiccups. She’ll understand that, especially when you’ve put this much thought into a pair. Just remember to have fun and be considerate! Good luck guys!

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Fabiana Lizarraga Pascali is a Latina actress, TV Host, and entrepreneur with 20 years of experience working in entertainment.  She has worked with a long list of national and international brands such as JC Penny, Target, Lexus, Ford, Chevrolet, Honda, AT&T, ToysRUs, and the Four Seasons.

Find out more about Fabiana on her website or follow her on Instagram


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