Man at His Best

These Are The 'Flaws' That Men And Women Actually Find Attractive

Self-improvement is overrated.

BY Editors | May 16, 2017 | Sex & Relationships

As we all know, falling in love is a constant struggle of trying not to reveal your real self to the other person so that they might like you.

Turns out, according to the people of Reddit, you needn't have bothered with all the self-improvement as there are plenty of flaws people are in fact attracted to.

A recent post asked users "what society-deemed 'flaw' do you find attractive?"

Plenty of physical attributes made the list including big foreheads, pointy ears, big noses, uneven hair, lips, glasses, tall people, small boobs, pale skin and guys who come too quickly.

"I'm turned on by self-doubt. There ya go," one user said.

"A little shyness can sometimes be endearing," agreed another with a further user saying, "If a girl is awkward and socially inept that makes me feel more comfortable about being awkward and socially inept."

For women there were many fans of outwardly emotional men and several who were fond of the 'Dad bod' with one saying, "I would take someone who is bigger over someone who is skinny or all muscle," and another agreeing, "My boyfriend still doesn't think I'm truly attracted to his body because he doesn't think girls are attracted to dad bods."

Another admitted they love body hair on their partner saying: "My boyfriend is very shy because his chest is pretty hairy but I just gush over it. To be honest though, I think meeting him is what made me think it's so attractive."

One woman said she couldn't resist a man slightly lacking in the height department saying: "Being small. I find myself constantly falling for guys 5'5" and less. The fact that I can hold them in my arms and cuddle it's just amazing."

Restores your faith in humanity a little huh?

From: Esquire UK